TGOM is an opportunity to disconnect from the noise of the modern world. A place where you can reconnect to nature and remember who you truly are without all the labels, rules and regulations of society. It has been created to offer men from all walks of life a space to reset their nervous systems. TGOM is where a man can reflect on his life, expand his capacity for responsibility, create deep bonds with other men and step fully into the next season of manhood. At its core, TGOM is an embodied prayer. A prayer that every man remembers his innate power and cultivates the skills required to serve humanity in a way that only a man can do. When you strip away the labels, the trophies, the possessions, & the money - At our core, We are all men. Together we share the responsibility of building a healthy, resilient culture of masculinity that can serve all humans now and for generations to come.

Most of our information sources have been poisoned. What was once a reliable source has been destroyed through ongoing contamination. What was once celebrated as pure is now seen as toxic and unnecessary.

But just like water sustains life, Masculinity sustains culture.

Without it we become lost in comfort, we lose ourselves indulging in convenience. The result is lonely men who have been isolated through the likes of packaged foods, work-from-home initiatives, video games and pornography.

We have been set up to live numb, unfulfilled and passive lives. This is not OK.

So as Men, it is our duty to redefine what it means to be a man. News stations, Universities, Social media, Politicians, Women, Children, ChatGPT - none of these have the ability to define what a man is.

We as men must cultivate a deep connection with ourselves, with each other and with nature to reveal the true essence of man and then let our intentions, thoughts, and actions be the determining factor that defines what a man truly is. We embody the truth and bring it through in our service to humanity. This is how we redefine what it means to be a man. In a society that has labelled masculinity toxic, it is our sacred duty to uphold the values of manhood and stand against anything that does not recognise and respect the essential gift that men bring to the world. TGOM is the convergence of men's communities. It is a united front where we as men can deepen our roots and grow in service to the collective.

The Gathering of Men is a 4 day immersion for men to challenge themselves, cultivate masculinity, & connect as a brotherhood..

 1. All-in Experiences These are embodiment-focused. We go through these together as an entire group.

2. Workshops (Choose your own adventure)
This is where the facilitators share their zone of mastery with you. During the workshop section, you will attend 1 of the 5 workshops on offer. We have a variety of workshops being delivered by an incredible range men's work leaders  

3. The Morning Practice (Start the day right)
Every morning we will spend time activating our mind, body and spirit. You will experience an activating blend of movement, mindfulness and connection exercises to prime yourself for the day. 

4. Pod Check-ins
A daily mens council. You will be part of a 12 men group called a "pod". Each day you will have a pod check-in facilitated by your 2x pod leaders. This will be an opportunity to share deeply with other men to be seen, heard, and held.

5. Live Presentations

We will have a range of presentations including poetry, initation based story telling, Q+A Panels to name a few.

PLUS: We will be sharing meals. Spending time in the sun. Swimming in the creek, Sitting around the fire. These magical moments in between are what make experiences like TGOM so special. The unscripted, spontaneous, follow-the-feeling moments that only happen when there is space to be truly present and free. 

This retreat is for any man. 

The man who wants to be both challenged and celebrated.

You are the man who is one, some, or all of the following...

- Feels caged by modern society.

- Looking for direction in life.

- Open to being called forward.

- Craving to be challenged.

- Aware he can not do it alone.

- Willing to fail & recommit.

- Wanting to know what he is truly capable of.

TGOM is a place where men of all ages, races, and locations gather to remember what binds us deeper than any label, status, or achievement could ever comprehend.

Which is The Sacred Duty of Manhood.

The minimum age requirement for participating is:

1. 18 years old without a guardian. 

2. 13 years old with a guardian. 

NOTE: Everyone must sign a waiver before the event to ensure they understand the terms and conditions of participating in the retreat.

Last year we had an age range of 13 - 84. 

- Bedding (either swag or tent with sheets, blankets, & pillow)
- A chair.
- 4 sets of clothes.
- Warm jacket.
- Boardshorts.
- Hat.
- Toiletries & two towels.
- Cutlery, Mug/Cup, & water bottle.
- Notebook + Pen.
- Musical instruments.
- Yoga mat or picnic blanket.

Optional: Sacred item for the altar, A small item that has meaning to you e.g. photo, crystal, feather, ring etc. 

All men are welcome to join. 

If you do have special needs please send us an enquiry of book a call to ensure we know how best to cater for you. 

In previous years we have had people with special needs join us with their support worker.

Every activity is an invitation. 

If you do not feel comfortable participating in one or more of the activities you are welcome to do so.

We will have multiple spaces for you to spend time and if you need extra support there will be facilitators available to provide it. 

NOTE: We have a buddy system so all men are accounted for.

If you wish to step away from one of the activities you must let your buddy and pod leader know.

This way all men are accounted for and we can ensure you are supported appropriately. 

The Retreat is held in Numinbah Valley in the Gold Coast Hinterland.

Upon booking you will receieve the full address.

The location is:

60 minutes from Gold Coast Airport

90 minutes from Brisbane City

90 minutes from Byron Bay

We encourage carpooling for this event and we have a group chat to facilitate this process.

Included in the price: 

All meals over the 4 days. 

We focus on 2 main meals: Breakfast and Dinner with a midday snack.

Filtered water - Bring a water bottle and you can refill it as often as needed.

Campsite (Note you will be required to bring your own camping and bedding equipment) - if you are flying from interstate we may be able to assist with this.

All activities and experiences are included in the price.

 TGOM Workbook. 

2x Integration calls (You will receive two integration calls with your pod group)

Online Masterclasses post-Retreat (All facilitators will be providing a follow-up online masterclass so you can continue to deepen your work in this area)

The prerequisites to attend are: 

Be a Man. 

Fill out the Participant Intake Form.

Sign the Participant Waiver.

THATS IT! 

You are required to share your mental health status in our participant intake form.

If necessary we will reach out to you directly to discuss what is the best option for you.  

If you need to share your specific mental health status with us you can book a call with our leadership team.

After the retreat, you will gain access to some amazing integration experiences. 

2x integration calls with your pod lead by your pod leader.

Online masterclasses with each facilitator spread out over October, November, and December. 

You will also be encouraged to stay active in the TGOM ONLINE Facebook Group. 

Payment for a ticket may be eligible for a partial refund if cancelled 30 days or more before the beginning of the event, you will receive a 50% refund of the payment minus a $50.00 admin fee

Any fees charged for tickets are non-refundable.

Aside from cancellation, Your ticket can be transferred to another man without any fee, provided we are notified of the man's name in writing (via email) no later than 48 hours before the event begins.