The Embodied Man Academy
Cultivating healthy masculine leadership.
For the man who knows he is here to do better as a husband, a father, and a leader.
The Embodied Man Academy
Cultivating healthy
masculine leadership.
For the man who knows he is here to do better as a husband, a father, and a leader.
Are you ready
to do the
work?
An opportunity for men
The Embodied Man Academy is a Leadership Development Program where men heal their emotional wounds, break free from limiting beliefs and step fully into masculine leadership connected to their power, passion and purpose.
You're the man who
on the oustide has it all together but...
If you’re reading this, something in your life has stalled.
Not collapsed. Not exploded. Just Stalled.
You’re still functioning. Still working. Still earning. Still showing up.
From the outside, it probably looks solid. But internally, you know the truth.
There’s a flatness to your life now. A lack of edge. A lack of direction. A lack of fire.
You’ve built a version of success that lacks meaning, and now it’s starting to suffocate you.
Your relationship feels it. Your body feels it. Your mind feels it.
But this isn’t about your relationship. That’s just where the cracks are visible.
This is about you. You’ve outgrown the man you’ve been living as.
And instead of stepping forward, you’ve been maintaining.
Coasting. Optimising for comfort instead of expanding your capacity.
And it’s costing you more than you’re willing to admit.
Let’s be honest.
You’ve spent the last 10–20 years building a life. Career. Income. Stability. Status.
You know how to provide. You know how to produce. You know how to perform under pressure.
But you know in your soul that you are not your job title. Not your bank account. Not your ability to provide. Something meaningful is missing. It's why everything you do, no matter how great, is never enough.
No one trained you for this, the intimate, deeper aspects of yourself and life.
No one showed you how to:
● Hold yourself to a standard when no one’s watching
● Take risks and make decisions that cost you comfort
● Lead your life instead of reacting to it
● Build discipline beyond motivation
● Expand your capacity instead of protecting your identity
You were taught how to succeed externally. You were not trained how to evolve internally.
That’s the gap. And that gap is now catching up with you. You are standing at a crossroads.
Follow the well-worn path, and it leads to a failed marriage, a meaningless career, poor habits and the never-ending cycle of more-more-more just to feel something that resembles being alive but quite plainly isn't.
Or, you go toward the unknown path. This way requires courage, faith and sacrifice. It leads to the life that you've always wanted but never dared to pursue.
So which path will you choose?
What you get
Men need education, initiation and accountability.
In our academy you get all three
MascuLine fouindationS
In depth teaching on the 6 core frameworks that men must know if they want a life of meaning and purpose.
Live Group
coaching
Twice a week we provide live group coaching calls. Bring your specific challenges and receive direct coaching.
Weekly
Accountability
Every Monday you'll check in and set your accountability for the upcoming week. This is a non-negotiable.
The Forty Four method
A proven system for developing Masculine Leadership broken down into 4 key phases: AWARENESS, HEALING, GROWTH, EMBODIMENT.
Sacred brotherhood
Experience a deep sense of safety, belonging and value as you grow alongside a brotherhood of men on the same journey from around the world.
weekly ChallengeS
Each week you are provided with an embodiment practice. each practice designed to sharpen your awareness and bring you into your power.
Here is the truth
You don’t become a leader by thinking differently.
You become a Leader by living differently.
With structure. With accountability. With standards.
One man is ready and willing to do the work. The other is committed to his comfort.
Which man are you?
Who this is for
This is for the man who:
Has success, but lacks depth, connection, or fulfilment
Is done blaming circumstances, his partner, or lack of time
Knows he’s been coasting and is ready to confront it
Wants structure, not inspiration
Wants accountability, not validation
Is willing to invest time, energy, and money into himself.
Is ready to be challenged and held to a higher standard
This is for the man who is no longer interested in feeling better.
He’s ready to be better.
Who this is not for
This is for NOT the man who:
Wants quick fixes or surface-level tools
Is looking for motivation without responsibility
Blames his partner, his past, or his circumstances for where he is
Needs to be convinced, reassured, or validated
Is unwilling to invest in himself
Wants to stay comfortable and avoid hard conversations
Is more committed to protecting his identity than evolving it
If you’re looking for something easy, cheap, or convenient.
This is not it. And it’s not meant to be.
in the Embodied man academy
Men Learn
HOW TO HEAL AND GROW into a mature man.
To Show up fully & authentically in relationships.
Build safe bonds with men and find brotherhood.
Live and operate from a place of truth, courage, and connection.
To Pursue their purpose and live with integrity.
to Be of service with courage and humility.
To communicate openly and clearly.
how to embody healthy masculine Leadership.
our approach
A man must understand his responsibility, embody his leadership and serve something greater than himself.
Education
When a man is educated and understands his role as a man and the power of his masculine leadership, he is able to take risks, make decisions and commit to his true path. Once a man understands a concept all he has to do is execute.
initiation
To step into the unknown and be challenged fortifies a man's nervous system and tests his resolve. This is how we build our capacity so we can offer our emotional range and deep awareness.
Camaraderie
A sense of belonging and safety will provide the appropriate container for a man to open up and be vulnerable. You don't have to do it alone. When one man heals we all heal. Together we RISE.
lets put the bullshit to bed
no more excuses.
“I just need more time to think about it.”
No. you don’t. You’ve had years to think about your life.
“I’m too busy right now.”
You’re not. You’re prioritising everything else over this work, that's a choice.
“I’ll do it later when things settle down.”
Things don’t “settle down.” They compound.
“I’ve already done a lot of work on myself.”
Then why are you still here?
“I don’t know if it’s worth the money.”
You’ve already spent tens of thousands building your external life.
“I need to talk to my partner first.”
If you’re a man who cannot make decisions about your own growth without permission, then that’s the exact reason you need this.
“I’m not sure I’m ready.”
You’re not. No man ever is. Ready is not a feeling - it’s a decision.
“What if I fail?”
You already are. This isn’t about avoiding failure. It’s about confronting it.
men who have walked this path
"grateful I leant in"
I lost my marriage, I lost my job of 20 years. I lost the woman I thought I would love forever. It was my fault but I found myself, I became a dad, not just a babysitter, I found passion and consistency. Thank you.
- Troy S
"My life will never be the same"
My life will never be the same after sitting in circle with the brotherhood. Thank you brothers in the circle for showing up, with the willingness to explore, unify and expand.
- Brad
"I feel like a new man"
It's time I stepped up and I wouldn't have the courage to do that had I not have been in a space with you and the other men. Highly recommend this to any man who thinks he has to do it alone
- Todd
THE EMBODIED MAN ACADEMY CURRICULUM
Masculine FOUndations
start
here
THE SIX
1. Nature-ALigned Living
2. THe Nervous System
3. Stages of manhood
4. THe Polarity Map
5. THe Initiation CYcle
6. Spirit-ALigned Living
The Forty Four Method
phase
one
developing Awareness
1. FUck yes - Fuck no - Maybe.
2. Learnt - studied - done.
3. When - Then.
4. Belief Bombing
5. Milestone Mapping
6. The Desire List
7. Pedestal and pit
8. Parental Assessment
9. The johani awareness map
10. burn the boats
11. Phase 1 review
phase
two
deep healing and SOmatic inquiry
1. Understanding inner child work
2. Loving the little boy - 0 to 3 years old
3. Loving the little boy - 3 to 7 years old
4. Loving the little boy - 7 to 12 years old
5. Becoming the man - 13 to 17 years old
6. Becoming the man - 18 to 21 years old
7. The Mother WOund.
8. The Father WOund.
9. Reconcile YOURSELF (Forgiveness)
10. Wounding to Wisdom
11. Phase 2 REview
phase
three
Cultivating Structural Integrity
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Embodied masculine leadership
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The gathering of
men 2026
join us at tGOM 2026 to reinstate healthy masculine culture, to challenge yourself and to celebrate the work you've put in.
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initiations and rites of passage
receive pre release invitations to any initiations & ROP's that we host throughout your year studying within EMA.
Plan OPTIONS
ONE TIME PAYMENT
PAY annuALLY & Save
$5000
Annual access to The Embodied Man Academy
Exclusive access to discounted 1:1 Coaching
25% off all EMI Workshops + Events
payment plan
$2000
down payment for the first
two months
$400
per month there after
Annual access to The Embodied Man Academy
Exclusive access to discounted 1:1 Coaching
25% off all EMI Workshops + Events
more questions?
What is the cost?
$550/month
No contract. cancel anytime.
AND THE COST OF DOING NOTHING?
If nothing changes, your life won’t explode. It will quietly deteriorate.
Your relationship won’t suddenly end, but the intimacy will thin out.
Your career won’t collapse, but it will plateau.
Your body won’t fail overnight, but your energy will drop.
Your life won’t become miserable, but it will become predictable.
The worst part, though? You will accept it, normalise it and convince yourself this is just how life is.
And that’s the real cost.
Not losing everything.
But never becoming the man you were destined to be.
meet the team
Jacob O'Neill
Jacob is a Men's Coach who has helped hundreds of men to live more fulfilling and meaningful lives.
He is passionate about helping men to connect to their hearts, their intuition, and their inner power.
He believes all men are here to live freely, love deeply & serve humbly.
- MENS COACH
Ryan Barraclough
Ryan is a student of life dedicated to the path of self knowledge and exploring the deeper waters of consciousness.
Ryan guides men to find a balanced perspective on obstacles they face in their lives through direct inquiry, breath work, lifestyle optimisation and various other embodiment tools.
- Mentor & Guide
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